DECODING DRAUPADI

Dear Marketer,

You know women matter to your business. But how well do you know them?

She is earning, spending and making decisions that brands still don't fully understand. Here is our case for paying closer attention.

With curiosity, and a few uncomfortable questions,
Decoding Draupadi

#1

She earns more, leads more and builds more.

Before we talk about what she buys, look at where her money comes from. Compared with a few years ago, more women sit in senior leadership, earn top-tier pay, grow their own wealth and found companies.

A woman reviews and signs papers at a boardroom table while her colleagues wait on her decision.

She leads

In twenty years, women have gone from 1 in 8 senior leaders to 1 in 3.

Mid-market firms and listed boards

A woman at the head of a boardroom table speaks while her team listens.

Senior leadership, mid-market firms

34%

of senior leadership roles are held by women.

18.3%

of board seats at listed companies.

Grant Thornton Bharat, 2024 · 2026, surveyed mid-market firms · Deloitte, Women in the Boardroom, 2018–23. Different studies, so the two levels aren't directly comparable.

She earns

At the top, she is paid like it. And her money is growing faster than his.

Listed companies and mutual funds

A woman listens closely as her adviser talks her through her portfolio across a sunlit table.

Her mutual-fund wealth

₹11.3 lakh cr

held by women in mutual funds: 37% of the money individuals hold.

Growth in a year

CAMS Women Investor Report 2026. Measured across CAMS-serviced mutual funds only, not all wealth held by Indian women.

Also: her pay at the top

₹71 lakh

a year: the median pay of a woman executive director at an NSE-listed company.

Prime Database via Business Standard, Mar 2025, 2,133 NSE-listed companies

She builds

Women are founding companies, raising capital and making India's lists of top business leaders.

Founders, funding and leaders

A founder leans on a chair in the office she built, looking out over the city.

From the board to the cap table

DPIIT-recognised startups

48%

up from about 1 in 3 in 2017

have at least one woman director.

Women-founded startups, 2025

$1.65bn

raised in funding, up from $1.43bn in 2024.

Hurun India Women Leaders 2026

84%

of the 117 women on the list are self-made.

DPIIT via IANS, Dec 2025 · Factly · DealStreetAsia, 2025 · Hurun India Women Leaders 2026, via Business Today. Three different groups, so the figures aren't directly comparable.

Why now: the shifts behind the numbers

Four life changes, the number behind each, and what each means for your brand.

Marriage

She marries later.

Urban women's average age at marriage rose from 23.1 in 2017 to 23.9 in 2020.

What it means for your brand

She sets up her own life before a shared one. Her first car, card, policy or portfolio is now chosen by her, often before the wedding. Win her then, and you can stay through marriage, a home and a family: decades of business, not one sale.

Family size

She has fewer children.

Urban fertility fell from 1.8 children per woman in 2016 to 1.5 in 2023.

What it means for your brand

Fewer dependants on each income leaves more room for her own spending. Fewer, bigger, more considered purchases favour the brand she trusts over the brand that is cheapest. Trust is what keeps her buying from you.

Money decisions

She decides on her own.

56% of urban women investors make investment decisions on their own, up from 44% in 2022.

What it means for your brand

The person you need to convince is her, not her husband or her father. Earn her trust on the first decision, and the next fund, policy and loan start with you. Lose it, and she leaves without asking anyone.
DSP Winvestor Pulse 2025–26, YouGov, 5,050 urban investors

Property

She buys the home herself.

Homes bought by women alone rose from 1.14 lakh to 1.29 lakh in a year in nine big cities. That is 22% of registrations, growing faster than men's (14% against 11%).

What it means for your brand

A home starts a long trail of spending: the loan, the insurance, the furniture, the appliances, the upgrades. When she signs for the house, she is the customer for everything that follows.

Our read

Her income may contribute to the household. But that doesn't make her a secondary decision-maker. Brands that still treat her money as someone else's are missing the customer in front of them.

So far

She's leading more teams, building companies, earning more at the top and making more decisions about her own life and money.

Next

So where is all that money going? ↓

#2

She's buying for herself. And she's buying premium.

Here is what that greater disposable income turns into - swankier cars, homes worth lakhs and crores, the fancier upgrade on a trip she planned, higher health covers, a diamond to celebrate milestones. More of these luxuries are now bought by her, not just for her.

A woman and her mother are shown around a home by an agent, who talks to her, the buyer.

Big-ticket buys, in her own name

Cars, diamonds and homes: where the cheque is largest.

At the showroom, a woman scatters flower petals on the bonnet of the luxury car she has just bought, as her mother looks on.

Luxury cars

15%

of Mercedes-Benz India's buyers are women.

Up from 6–7% earlier. Its average buyer is now 38, down from 44.

Mercedes-Benz India via Storyboard18, Mar 2024. Its MD, speaking in 2024.
At a jeweller's counter, a woman tries on a diamond bracelet she is buying for herself.

Diamonds · Non-bridal

64%

of natural diamond jewellery bought outside weddings is bought by women for themselves.

At weddings, 79% is credited to brides buying their own.

De Beers Diamond Acquisition Study 2025, via GJEPC

Homes

61%

of women homebuyers surveyed want a home above ₹90 lakh.

1 in 10 is looking above ₹2.5 crore.

ANAROCK Consumer Sentiment Survey, H2 2025. Sample not published.

Spending on her own life

Four categories, four different measures: cover bought, equity held, trips planned, races run. Read them as evidence across categories, not one spending trend.

Health insurance

She insures herself, and buys more cover.

+43%

more women bought health cover for themselves on Policybazaar in FY24 than in FY23.

Share choosing cover above ₹25 lakh.

Policybazaar, FY23 vs FY24. Platform data.

Wealth

She invests like she means it.

72.8%

up from 61.9% a year earlier

of women worth ₹5 crore or more hold Indian equities.

Waterfield Advisors, Women of Wealth 2026, 169 women worth ₹5 crore+
A woman relaxes in a first-class suite on a long-haul flight.

Travel

She plans the holiday. And she upgrades it.

72%

of leisure trips are designed or influenced by women, and women choose 28% more premium upgrades.

41%

of urban women investors now put travel ahead of buying a home. DSP Winvestor Pulse, 2026

Thrillophilia, Nov 2025, 2.12 lakh itineraries on one platform · DSP / YouGov, 5,050 urban investors
A smiling woman flashes a peace sign mid-race at the Tata Mumbai Marathon, the Gateway of India behind her.

Fitness

She trains, she races, she pays for it.

18,862

women ran the Tata Mumbai Marathon 2026, up 11.6% on 2025: 27% of the field.

32%

of the first 5,000+ people to sign up for HYROX Bengaluru 2026 were women.

Market context, all genders: India's commercial fitness market is projected to grow from ₹16,200 crore in 2024 to ₹37,700 crore by 2030.

Tata Mumbai Marathon 2026 impact report, via Business Standard · HYROX India, Dec 2025, early registrations · Deloitte and HFA, 2025

Our read

She isn't buying premium to make a point. She buys it like any premium customer, and judges you like one: were you worth it?

So far

She's buying cars, diamonds and homes in her own name, and investing, insuring herself, travelling and training on her own terms.

Next

If she's ready to spend, what's stopping brands from winning her business? ↓

#3

She's paying. Your category still isn't built for her.

She is an informed, discerning buyer with more money than time. She buys credit, property, wealth advice, travel and healthcare at the top of the market. Yet the product, the advice and the pitch still assume someone else is the customer.

A pregnant woman in a supplements aisle checks her phone, unsure whether anything on the shelf is made for her.

Meet the buyer

Discerning, well-researched, and short on people she trusts.

The buyer, in one line

She reads the fine print, asks her circle and compares everything.

What she needs is information she can use, someone she can trust, and a way to find what she is looking for.

Late at night at her kitchen table, a woman reads the property pages, comparing homes on her own.
  1. 1Research

    She plans further ahead.

    9 days

    earlier than men, on average, women book their trips.

    Thrillophilia via Outlook Money, Nov 2025. One platform.

  2. 2Evaluate

    Trust is her first spec.

    30%

    of the weight in a woman's car decision rests on trust, ahead of mileage.

    Maruti Suzuki via afaqs, Mar 2024. Company research.

  3. 3Decide

    She decides. She wants backup.

    24%

    of urban women investors decide on their own with an adviser beside them, up from 17% in 2022.

    DSP Winvestor Pulse 2025–26, YouGov, urban investors

Research, evaluate, decide is our way of organising three different studies. It isn't a proven journey that every woman follows.

Here is where she doesn't get it.

Where she is let down

Six gaps in three themes: financial services, mobility and safety, and healthcare. Each one: the finding, the evidence, and what's missing.

01

Financial services

Gap 1 · Credit cards

The safer borrower still gets the smaller card.

Her wealth is growing faster than men's, and fewer of her card balances run overdue. Yet women hold only a small slice of India's card balances.

Her money

+13%

growth in women's mutual-fund wealth last year. Men's: 11%.

Her credit

14%

of India's credit card balances are women's.

What's missing

A premium card that treats her as the main account holder, not the add-on. On paper, she is the ideal cardholder.
CAMS, 2026 · CRIF High Mark, Mar 2026, portfolio outstanding and 31–180 days overdue (women 3.5%, men 3.9%), Dec 2025

Gap 2 · Property

She's buying the home. She isn't getting the loan.

More women now buy homes in their own name, and most women homebuyers surveyed want homes above ₹90 lakh. Yet only about 1 in 9 home loans approved last year went to a woman.

Homes bought:
share of registrations in 9 big cities by women buying alone.
Loans approved:
share of home loans approved in 13 markets in 2025 that went to women.

What's missing

Home loans and property advice designed for a woman buying on her own. Many of these women buy as investors: 73% put rental income and returns ahead of a home to live in. Yet most ads and sales pitches still sell her a family home, not an investment.
Square Yards, 2024 · Square Yards / Urban Money, 2025 · Magicbricks, 2026. Different datasets, read side by side.
At home on her sofa, a woman listens as her wealth adviser walks her through a plan.

Gap 3 · Wealth advice

She wants an adviser. She can't find one she trusts.

The wealthiest women are asking for advice built around them. Few of them are looking, and many still turn to family first.

8 in 10

women worth ₹10 crore+ want wealth management designed for women.

Only 21% of them actively look for a wealth manager.

What's missing

Advice she would choose: clear, unhurried and built around her goals. She is asking for it. Almost no one is offering it in a way she wants to buy.
Waterfield Advisors, 2024, 104 women worth ₹10 crore+ · DBS Bank India and CRISIL, 2024
02

Mobility and safety

Gap 4 · Travel

She plans every detail. Safety is still in the fine print.

Safety is the first thing she filters for when she plans. 61% of women surveyed say a women-only butler option could change which hotel they book.

9 in 10

women travellers put safety first when choosing where to go.

Women planning trips use 3× as many safety filters.

What's missing

Safety designed into the product and stated plainly at booking. For a premium traveller, it is part of what she is paying for, not a pink add-on.
Outlook Traveller × Toluna, 2024, 1,214 women · Thrillophilia via Outlook Money, Nov 2025 · IHCL survey, 2020
A woman travelling alone checks in at a hotel's front desk, at ease, as staff wait with her suitcase.
03

Healthcare

Gap 5 · Midlife health

Midlife changes her needs. Most brands say nothing.

Menopause arrives while most of these women are still working, and their health needs shift sharply. Among women Apollo screened, diabetes jumps from 14% before menopause to 40% after.

46

average age of menopause in India

What's missing

Products, cover and care for women in their 40s and 50s. The money has started to notice: Nua raised $50 million in 2026, and insurers like Bajaj Allianz now sell women-only health covers.
Indian Menopause Society · Abbott × Ipsos, 2023 · Apollo Health of the Nation 2025 · Inc42, 2026 · Bajaj Allianz, 2025

Gap 6 · Screening

Early detection saves lives. Too few women get it.

Breast cancer caught early is very survivable in India. Once it spreads, the odds collapse. Most eligible women in Apollo's data still hadn't had a mammogram.

Five-year survival

4 in 10 eligible women over 40 had a mammogram.

What's missing

Screening that is easy, affordable and normal for her: packages, reminders, and employer and insurance cover that pay for it.
ICMR study in Cancer, 2024, 17,331 patients · Apollo Health of the Nation 2026, 5.8 lakh women's assessments, not nationally representative

In her words

First-person experiences from our community, named only with permission. Qualitative examples, not statistical proof.

From the Decoding Draupadi community

[Awaiting verified Decoding Draupadi community quote]

Wanted: how long she researched her last big purchase, and what finally made her trust the brand she chose.Name · City · context, with permission

From the Decoding Draupadi community

[Awaiting verified Decoding Draupadi community quote]

Wanted: a time she had the money and the intent, and still couldn't find what she was looking for.Name · City · context, with permission

What has worked

Six solutions that won her as a buyer, from India, Japan, Southeast Asia, the Middle East and the US.

None of these was a Women's Day film. Each one changed what she could learn, who she could trust, or what was built for her.

Maruti Suzuki Arena

Content

India · 2024

Result source: company data, as reported to afaqs

Tell her story before you sell her the car.

Commissioned four short films by women directors about women's own journeys, released as stories, not sales pitches. Its research had found trust carries nearly 30% of the weight in women's car decisions.

12%

of Arena buyers are women, against an industry average of 7 to 8%. Over 9 lakh cars sold to women in six years.

Maruti Suzuki via afaqs, Mar 2024. Company data. Video: Terribly Tiny Tales, the campaign partner.

Uniqlo BRATOP

Product built for her

Japan · 2008 onwards

Result source: market data (Euromonitor), via Bloomberg

Design for how she lives.

Built a top with a bra inside: wireless and comfort-first, instead of another version of the underwired bra.

No. 1

seller of women's intimate wear in Japan by 2020, overtaking Wacoal. It sold over 3 million in its first year.

Bloomberg, May 2021, citing Euromonitor · Fast Retailing, 2009

Harley-Davidson

Events and community

USA · 2008 to 2012

Result source: market data (Polk). A link, not proof of cause

Teach first. Sell later.

Ran women-only Garage Parties at about 680 dealers: hands-on bike basics, riding classes and a guide for new women riders, with no sales pressure.

No. 1

seller of new street motorcycles to US women by 2012, ahead of all other brands combined. A link, not proof of cause.

MediaPost, 2008 · BizTimes, Apr 2013, Polk data
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Nike

Fit and sizing

USA · 2019

Result source: market share, as reported by Retail Dive

Fix the fit, and she comes back.

Put women's products first and rebuilt its sports bra range around fit, including extended sizes.

No. 1

in sports bra market share in North America for the first time. Its women's business grew by double digits in FY19.

Retail Dive, Jun 2019 · CNBC, Apr 2019. Video: Nike.

BLC Bank

Banking built for her

Lebanon · 2012 onwards

Result source: the bank's own case study, with IFC

Treat her as a market, not a cause.

Set up a dedicated women's banking programme, with products, advisers and training designed for women customers, as a business line.

18%+

of the bank's profits came from the women's programme within two years.

Financial Alliance for Women, BLC case study, with IFC. Video: IFC.

Grab

Safety by design

Southeast Asia · 2024

Result source: company data, driver side

Build the safety in. Don't print it in the terms.

Let women drivers choose to be matched with women passengers, as a feature in the app rather than a promise in an ad.

1 in 2

women drivers in the region tried it within six months. Matches between women drivers and women passengers rose 49%.

Grab, Oct 2024. Company data, driver side. Video: Grab.

Our read

Having options isn't the same as having options built for her. Every gap she runs into is a chance for another brand to earn her business. The question is who's paying attention.

So far

Across credit, property, wealth advice, travel and health, women encounter gaps between what they need and what brands offer. A few brands, in India and abroad, have closed them, and won her for it.

Next

If brands have misread what she needs, how well do they know who she is? ↓

#4

Your ads show who she used to be.

An ad is a brand telling a woman who it thinks she is. Indian advertising has learned to include her. It hasn't learned to take her seriously: she appears as often as men, but is rarely shown earning, leading or deciding. To the woman holding the budget, that says only one thing: this brand isn't talking to her.

On her sofa, a woman watches a TV ad of a mother cooking for her family: the life ads still picture, not the one she lives.

Visible, not authoritative

Being seen in an ad is not the same as being taken seriously in it.

Seen

48.7%

of characters in India's most-watched ads of 2024 were women.

Geena Davis Institute, UNICEF India, IAA, 2026. 3,917 characters in 996 ads.

Taken seriously

3×

Men were three times as likely as women to be shown as authoritative.

ASCI, Kantar, Unstereotype Alliance. 261 new Indian TV ads, Oct 2023.

Who leads, on screen

She's rarely in charge.

Only 3.5% of women in these ads were shown as leaders. Off screen, women hold about a third of senior leadership roles in India's mid-market firms.

Geena Davis Institute, 2026 · Grant Thornton Bharat, 2026. Different studies, set side by side, not calculated.

What advertising shows

She's on screen. She's rarely shown earning.

Women charactersMen characters

Scale 0 to 30%.

Geena Davis Institute with UNICEF India and the IAA India Chapter, 2026, 3,917 characters in 996 ads
At a wedding, a woman photographer works the aisle, camera up, while the guests celebrate around her.

What marketers say

Most see her rise. Few think they lead.

14%

of senior Indian marketers called their brand a leader at marketing to women. 79% said women's buying influence had grown in two years.

HerKey × Havas Creative, Mar 2026. Sample size not published.

Does it pay? Global evidence

Progressive ads are linked to higher sales.

+16%

long-term sales for more progressive ads than less progressive ones. A global correlation, observed across 392 brands in 58 countries with data from Unilever, Mars, Diageo, Mondelēz, Bayer and Kantar. In Kantar's analysis, Unilever's own inclusive campaigns, including Dove and Rexona, showed 103% stronger brand power.

Unstereotype Alliance and Oxford Saïd, 2024 · WFA study summary · Unilever case studies, Sep 2024

Brands that get it, and brands that don't

Decoding Draupadi editorial reads of how well each campaign understands her. Not performance ratings.

Representation that works
Portrays her with agency or relevance.
A useful lesson
Suggests what marketers should question in their own work.
A missed opportunity
A stereotype or narrow assumption limits the message.

Mia by Tanishq · 2026

Representation that works

Precious, Every Day

The takeaway

Find the thing that used to be given to her, and sell it to her.

Read our critique

The campaign

A friend sees a diamond ring on Aneet Padda's hand and assumes she's engaged. She bought it herself. "The proposal is for someday. This is for today."

Our take

It takes the most loaded object in Indian jewellery, the engagement ring, and hands it back to her as her own purchase. That is where the money already is: De Beers finds 64% of diamond jewellery bought outside weddings is self-purchased, and Mia's business head calls self-purchase one of its fastest-growing lines. The ad simply follows the customer.

MediaNews4U, Oct 2026 · De Beers DAS 2025

Axis Bank · 2025

Representation that works

ARISE: made by listening to women

The takeaway

You can mock the tokenism only if your product isn't tokenism.

Read our critique

The campaign

Shefali Shah plays herself and an alter ego who mocks hollow, pink Women's Day gestures. The bank ties the film to a women's account it says was built from what women asked for.

Our take

Banking rarely laughs at itself, and this does, while pointing to a real product rather than a sentiment. It earns credibility by naming the tokenism its own category is guilty of. The irony is the timing: it still launched on Women's Day, and there is no published outcome yet.

exchange4media, Mar 2025

HDFC Mutual Fund · 2026

A useful lesson

Invest Like A Woman

The takeaway

Respect her as an investor for her money, not her multitasking.

Read our critique

The campaign

Patience, discipline and foresight, shown through balancing home and work and planning for family, are presented as investing skills. "There is no better natural investor than a woman."

Our take

The instinct is right: treat her as a capable investor. But it roots her skill in managing the household, not in her income, ambition or goals. Compare Edelweiss, which made the same case with numbers. A woman worth crores doesn't need her investing justified by her multitasking.

Passionate in Marketing, Mar 2026

BOBCARD (Bank of Baroda) · 2025

A missed opportunity

TIARA, the card for the "modern day queen"

The takeaway

Your perks tell her who you think she is.

Read our critique

The campaign

A ₹2,499 women's credit card whose perks lead with salon vouchers, fashion and beauty discounts, alongside lounge access and lower forex fees. Launched with a Women's Day film.

Our take

The film is a well-meant inclusion story. The product is the problem: it defines an affluent woman by pampering, not by wealth, travel or credit-building. That is a strange choice when women are the lower-risk card customers and hold only 14% of card balances. The verdict is on the product and its positioning.

BOBCARD, TIARA product page · CRIF High Mark, 2026

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Edelweiss Mutual Fund · 2026

Representation that works

Women, the fastest-growing force in finance

The takeaway

Talk to her as a customer you are competing for, not a cause you are supporting.

Read our critique

The campaign

The fund house's CEO, Radhika Gupta, is asked what the fastest-growing thing in finance is. Her answer: women. The film ends with an invitation to invest.

Our take

It speaks to women as a market that is already investing, and the data backs it: women's mutual-fund wealth grew 13% last year, faster than men's. It leads with her money, not her empathy. The weakness is the date: it is a Women's Day film.

Storyboard18, Mar 2026 · CAMS, 2026

Tanishq · 2024 to 2025

Representation that works

Celebrate Your Sparkle

The takeaway

Sell her the reason she buys, not the occasion you assume.

Read our critique

The campaign

Manisha Koirala fronts a diamond campaign that puts a woman's own confidence, not an occasion or a gift, at the centre. It ran as Tanishq's first campaign of 2025, nowhere near Women's Day.

Our take

Tanishq's CMO describes diamonds as "a confident expression of individuality", against gold's family and wedding meaning, and names women aged 30 to 40 as the core buyer. That is a brand reading its own customer correctly. What's missing is evidence: no results have been published.

afaqs, Feb 2025

House of Abhinandan Lodha · 2025

A useful lesson

Kahaaniyaan Jo Riwaaz Badlein

The takeaway

Make her the investor in her own story.

Read our critique

The campaign

Based on a true story: three daughters pool their money to buy land and fulfil their father's dream. Women investors were offered a 2% benefit and two years of zero maintenance.

Our take

It puts women in the frame as land buyers in a category where, by the developer's own figure, about 80% of investment comes from men. That matters. But the purchase completes a father's wish, and the hook is a Women's Day discount. Women homebuyers are telling surveys they buy for returns.

PTI via The Wire, Mar 2025 · Magicbricks, 2026

Royal Enfield · 2018 to 2026

A useful lesson

Women riders, men's content

The takeaway

If the barrier is the product and the showroom, the fix isn't a film.

Read our critique

The campaign

Women-only Himalayan rides since 2016 and a women's riding-gear range since 2020. Its flagship 2026 streaming series follows two men, and 84% of the series' audience is male.

Our take

Royal Enfield said in 2020 that women riders were under-served, and it built rides and gear for them. But it doesn't publish how many of its buyers are women, and what keeps ordinary women off the bike is weight, seat height, the dealership and gear fit. A film about exceptional riders doesn't fix those.

afaqs, Jun 2020 · Open Magazine, Aug 2026

Zurich Kotak General Insurance · 2026

A useful lesson

#DriveLikeALady

The takeaway

Calling out a stereotype is a start. Pricing and serving her differently is the business.

Read our critique

The campaign

A badly parked, damaged car in Mumbai. Passers-by assume a woman parked it. The driver was a man. The insurer's 2025 edition noted that fewer than 15% of its motor claims came from women.

Our take

It takes on a bias women drivers hear every day, and backs it with the insurer's own claims data, which is more than most do. But it offers her nothing as a customer: no price, cover or service built around how she drives. And it arrives on Women's Day.

Investment Guru India, Mar 2026 · Zurich Kotak, 2025

South Indian Bank · 2023

A missed opportunity

Trust meets Tech since 1929

The takeaway

Leaving her out is also a message.

Read our critique

The campaign

A brand film for young customers: a man races a sports car, remembering his father cheering his toy-car race as a child. No women appear.

Our take

A film about trust and legacy in which wealth passes from father to son, aimed at a generation where women are investing and borrowing faster than ever. A gender-lens review in Campaign India scored it 2.5 out of 5 for being male-centric and ignoring young women in the workforce.

Campaign India, Mar 2023 · Campaign India gender-lens critique

The occasion trap

She buys all year. Even the good campaigns arrive on 8 March.

Six of the ten campaigns above launched around Women's Day. Brands save their best thinking about women for a symbolic date, then go back to the old script for the other 364.

The HerKey and Havas study of Indian marketers has a name for it: the occasion trap.

But she doesn't meet your brand on 8 March. She meets it in the hundred small decisions inside every ad, every pack and every product, all year:

That is where she decides whether a brand sees her. Not in a once-a-year film, but in every frame of every other one.

  • Who is cast as the expert, and who asks the question
  • Who serves dinner, and who sits down to eat it
  • Who wakes up first, and who gives the medicine
  • Who teaches the child to ride a bicycle
  • What she does for a living, and whether we see it
  • What she wears, and what she is doing in each frame
  • What the ad says, and who it is really selling to
  • Whose research shaped the brief
  • Whose needs shaped the product before the ad was made

Who does the caring

She's still cast as the carer.

5×

as many women as men are shown as sole caregivers in new Indian TV ads: 17.5% against 3.5%.

ASCI, Kantar, Unstereotype Alliance, 2024, new TV ads with women, Oct 2023

Who does the housework

She's still shown in the kitchen.

4×

as likely to be shown cooking: women characters 2.4%, men 0.6%. Cleaning: 3.9% against 1.6%.

Geena Davis Institute, UNICEF India, IAA, 2026, 996 ads

What marketers admit

Brands know they do it.

1 in 3

brands still portray women primarily as caregivers.

HerKey × Havas Creative, Mar 2026. Sample size not published.

In their words

“While the presence of women and their depiction matters, the absence also tells a story.”
Manisha Kapoor, CEO and Secretary General, ASCI · IndianTelevision, Mar 2021

In their words

“An over-glorified image of the mother as a tireless, selfless superhuman doesn't help.”
Nitika Parmar, Group Creative Director, VMLY&R India · Social Samosa, May 2023

In their words

“Women are not just an audience segment anymore; they are a decisive force shaping how categories evolve.”
Anupama Ramaswamy, MD and CCO, Havas Creative India · PRmoment, Mar 2026

Our read

Representation isn't a CSR exercise. It's a test of how well you know your customer. If your advertising still shows a woman she no longer recognises, what else have you misunderstood about her?

So far

She's on screen in plenty of ads, but shown earning or leading far less often than men, and too often only around weddings and festivals.

Next

So what changes, starting Monday? ↓

#5

Five thinking points for your next brief.

None of this needs a bigger budget. It needs better questions, asked earlier: before the agency is briefed, before the media plan, before the film is shot. These five are where we would start.

In a sunlit office, a woman sits back in her chair, absorbed in the papers in her hands.
  1. 01

    Consumer truth

    Do you know her, or a persona slide about her?

    Start with your own data: who decides, who pays, who uses. Then sit with her, because the insight a dashboard misses surfaces in ten minutes of real conversation.

  2. 02

    Product truth

    If she walked into your store, branch or app tomorrow, would it feel built for her?

    The ad makes the promise, but the showroom, the form and the helpline decide whether she believes it. Fix one of those before you shoot another film.

  3. 03

    Communication truth

    Take “empowerment” out of the script. Is there still a reason to buy?

    If the idea needs that word, the idea is the problem. Show respect in the offer: a better rate, a better fit, a faster answer.

  4. 04

    Learning loop

    Who was the last woman who walked away from you, and why?

    Your sharpest research is the customer you lost. The women who switched or never called back will tell you what your category keeps getting wrong.

  5. 05

    Accountability

    A year from now, what will have changed besides the film?

    Measure what she can feel: your share of women buyers, repeat purchase, complaints closed. If none of those move, it was a campaign, not a strategy.

Your next step

Take these questions into your next brief.

A one-page checklist of all five, to copy or download.

And finally

Dear Marketer, this is a story of hope.

She isn't a new consumer you have to go out and find. She is already in your data. The pages are stuck together, and most of us have only skimmed them.

She doesn't need another campaign telling her who she can be. She needs brands that know who she already is.

That is the work we believe in. We've got this. So do you.With hope, and a lot of faith in you, Decoding Draupadi

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Methodology

How we built this

Every card names its source and links to it, so any card can be screenshotted and shared on its own. Here is how we chose what went in, and what we left out.

Scope

Who
Affluent, urban women in India with premium spending power: leaders, founders, investors, and buyers of cars, homes, diamonds and travel.
When
Indian data from 2023 to 2026 first. Older or global figures appear only as labelled context, with their year.
What's out
Mass-market measures, all-gender figures presented as hers, and popular claims that don't show how they were measured for India.

How we chose and used the evidence

  • Her, specifically.

    Every number is about women. Where only an all-gender figure exists, the card says so.

  • India first, recent first.

    Indian data from 2023 to 2026 leads. Global studies and case studies from Japan, Southeast Asia, the Middle East and the US appear as labelled context, with their year.

  • The woman with premium spending power.

    We chose numbers that picture the affluent urban woman: senior leaders, founders, investors, and buyers of cars, homes, diamonds and travel. National figures appear only where they explain a shift behind her.

  • Who each number describes.

    Each card says whether a figure covers all of India, listed companies, urban investors, survey respondents or one company's customers. Company and platform data describe that company's customers only.

  • Numbers as the source states them.

    We report each figure with its period. Arrows show the change over that period. We don't project, estimate or combine figures. Where two figures from different studies sit side by side, the contrast is ours, not a calculation. A hypothesis is labelled as one.

  • Data and our read, kept apart.

    The evidence cards carry the data. Text marked with a red rule, and the red Our read cards, are Decoding Draupadi's interpretation of it, and are written to be argued with.

  • What we left out.

    We don't use the popular claims that women drive 80% of purchases or 70 to 85% of buying influence, because neither shows how it was measured for India. During checking, we also dropped figures whose source didn't support how they were being used.

  • Campaigns.

    The ten campaigns are released work by Indian brands, played from each brand's official channel. Gets it right, part of it right and misses the point are our editorial verdicts on how well each understands her. They are not measures of commercial performance.

  • What has worked.

    The six case studies draw on company statements and trade and business press. Results are as reported, not audited by us. Some are a few years old. We kept them because the solution still holds.

  • Voices.

    Practitioner quotes come from published interviews and articles, linked to where they first appeared. Decoding Draupadi community quotes are used only with permission and are attributed. Our community gives us insight and access, not a representative sample.

  • Photos.

    Image slots are reserved for Decoding Draupadi's own photography. We don't use stock images of women.

Every source in one list (63)
  1. Grant Thornton Bharat, Women in Business 2024. Senior management roles held by women in surveyed Indian mid-market firms, 2004 to 2024.
  2. Grant Thornton Bharat, Women in Business 2026. Surveyed Indian mid-market firms; nearly 34% of senior leadership roles held by women.
  3. Deloitte, Women in the Boardroom (India). Listed companies covered by Deloitte, 2018 to 2023.
  4. Prime Database, via Business Standard. Mar 2025. 2,133 NSE-listed companies. Median pay of executive directors.
  5. DPIIT, via IANS. Jun 2026. DPIIT-recognised startups with at least one woman director, Dec 2025.
  6. Factly, DPIIT data. Earlier years of the same series.
  7. Hurun India Women Leaders List 2026, via Business Today. Jul 2026. 117 women; 84% self-made.
  8. DealStreetAsia, Women Founders in India 2025. Funding raised by women-founded startups, 2024 and 2025.
  9. MoSPI, Women and Men in India 2023 (SRS data). Urban fertility rate and mean age at marriage.
  10. Square Yards, via Outlook Money. 2024. Property registrations by sole women buyers, 9 cities.
  11. DSP Mutual Fund Winvestor Pulse 2025–26, by YouGov. Mar 2026. 5,050 urban investors, 13 cities. Company-commissioned.
  12. Mercedes-Benz India, via Storyboard18. Mar 2024. Company's own customer data.
  13. ANAROCK H2 2025 Consumer Sentiment Survey, via Business Standard. Mar 2026. Women homebuyers surveyed; price preferences 2019 and 2025. Sample size not published.
  14. CRIF High Mark, The Credit Goes to Her. Mar 2026. Credit bureau data, Dec 2025: women's share of portfolio outstanding by product; 31–180 days overdue.
  15. De Beers Group, Diamond Acquisition Study 2025, via GJEPC. India natural diamond jewellery; self-purchase share outside bridal.
  16. CAMS, Women Investor Report 2026. Mar 2026. CAMS-serviced mutual funds, 41.5 million investors; women as first holder.
  17. Waterfield Advisors, Women of Wealth Report 2026, via AltPort Funds. May 2026. 169 women with net worth above ₹5 crore.
  18. Tata Mumbai Marathon 2026 Socio-Economic and Health Impact Report (Procam, IISM), via Business Standard. Sep 2026. 69,100 participants.
  19. HYROX India, via EventFAQs. Dec 2025. First-week registrations for Bengaluru 2026.
  20. Deloitte and HFA, India Fitness Market 2025. All genders; projection to 2030.
  21. Apollo Hospitals, Health of the Nation 2026. Apr 2026. 3 million+ assessments, 580,847 women's; not nationally representative.
  22. Apollo Hospitals, Health of the Nation 2025. Apr 2025. 2.5 million+ screened.
  23. ICMR breast cancer survival study (Cancer), via Morung Express. Jan 2024. 17,331 patients, 11 registries.
  24. Indian Menopause Society survey, Journal of Mid-Life Health. 2016. 2,108 women; average age of menopause 46.2.
  25. Inc42, Nua Series C. Sep 2026.
  26. Bajaj Allianz, Herizon Care launch. Feb 2025. Women-only health and protection plan.
  27. Redcliffe Labs, preventive health checkups case study. Women about 57% preventive, men about 65%; platform data.
  28. Maruti Suzuki (Shashank Srivastava), via afaqs. Mar 2024. Company research and sales data.
  29. Thrillophilia report, via Outlook Money. Nov 2025. 2.12 lakh itineraries.
  30. Retail Dive, Nike women's business. Jun 2019. Global.
  31. Powersports Business, Harley-Davidson women riders. May 2013. US, Polk registration data.
  32. Mia by Tanishq, Precious Every Day, via MediaNews4U. Oct 2026.
  33. Axis Bank ARISE, via exchange4media. Mar 2025.
  34. HDFC Mutual Fund, Invest Like A Woman. Mar 2026.
  35. House of Abhinandan Lodha, Women's Day 2025, PTI via The Wire. Mar 2025.
  36. BOBCARD TIARA product page. Product features and fee.
  37. Campaign India, creative critique from a gender lens. Mar 2023. Score by Dr AL Sharada, Population First.
  38. Bloomberg, Uniqlo bra tops. May 2021, citing Euromonitor.
  39. Financial Alliance for Women, BLC Bank case study. Lebanon; with IFC.
  40. Grab, Women Passengers Preferred. Oct 2024. Company data, driver side.
  41. Tanishq, Celebrate Your Sparkle, via afaqs. Feb 2025.
  42. WFA, Inclusion = Income study summary. Jun 2024. Data from Bayer, Diageo, Kantar, Mars, Mondelēz and Unilever.
  43. Unilever, inclusive advertising results. Sep 2024. Kantar analysis of Unilever's 2023 inclusive campaigns.
  44. ASCI × Futurebrands, GenderNext. Oct 2021. 600+ ads.
  45. Nitika Parmar (VMLY&R India), via Social Samosa. May 2023.
  46. Manisha Kapoor (ASCI), IndianTelevision interview. Mar 2021.
  47. DSP Mutual Fund, Winvestor Pulse 2025–26 press release. Mar 2026. 5,050 urban investors, 13 cities, by YouGov.
  48. Thrillophilia, via Outlook Traveller. Nov 2025. 2.12 lakh itineraries on one platform.
  49. Policybazaar, via Business Standard. Mar 2024. Platform data on women buying health cover, to FY24.
  50. Square Yards / Urban Money, women and housing finance. 2025. 56,523 home loans approved in 13 markets.
  51. Magicbricks, via The Realty Today. 2026. Women homebuyers surveyed.
  52. Waterfield Advisors, via Cafemutual. 2024. 104 women worth ₹10 crore or more.
  53. DBS Bank India and CRISIL, women earners survey. Jan 2024. About 800 earning women in 10 metros.
  54. Outlook Traveller × Toluna, What Women Want. 2024. 1,214 women travellers.
  55. IHCL research on women travellers. 2020. Company-commissioned survey.
  56. Abbott × Ipsos, via The Quint. 2023. 1,241 women aged 40 to 55.
  57. Geena Davis Institute with UNICEF India and the IAA India Chapter, India Advertising Midline. 2026. 996 ads from 2024 (3,917 characters) and 1,000 from 2019.
  58. ASCI, Kantar and Unstereotype Alliance, Gender Narratives in Indian Advertising. 2024. 261 new TV ads aired Oct 2023.
  59. HerKey × Havas Creative India, The Paradox of Influence. Mar 2026. Senior marketers; sample size not published.
  60. Unstereotype Alliance and Oxford Saïd, Inclusion = Income. Sept 2024. 392 brands, 58 countries; global and correlational.
  61. Campaign coverage: Edelweiss (Storyboard18), Royal Enfield (afaqs), Royal Enfield (Open), Zurich Kotak, Zurich Kotak 2025, South Indian Bank (Campaign India).
  62. Case-study coverage: Fast Retailing, 2009, CNBC, Nike, 2019, MediaPost, Harley-Davidson, 2008, BizTimes, Harley-Davidson, 2013.
  63. Inclusive advertising evidence: Unstereotype Alliance, The Business Case for Progressive Marketing (PDF), Kantar, Unstereotype Metric, Mondelēz, via Marketing Week.

Published October 2026 · Version 3 · Last updated 22 October 2026

Decoding Her is published by Decoding Draupadi, a women-first community and media platform examining the lives, work, choices and ambitions of urban working women in India. Comments and corrections: ak@c4e.in

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